But that's the core of the issue, isn't it? GW2 isn't that game. The only reason why it seems to be that game is because you are playing it "wrong". And, ultimately, that's exactly what the bitching is about: a lot of us want GW2 to be THAT game. But it can't be that game until A.Net says that they are not happy with the current game and that they are going to change it so that it becomes that game. They need to change GW2 to be that game when played "right", rather than when played "wrong".
Now, as I said before, I very much support the idea of playing the game "wrong". We play games to have fun and if you are not having fun, there's very little point in playing a select game, Might as well play a different game. And GW2 does allow you to win, despite playing it "wrong". Which is lovely. For a while. But if you decide that you want to grow as a GW2 player, if you want to do better, then you realize that your way of playing the game is in direct contradiction with how the game wants you to play.
And then it stops being lovely.